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Do you know children cry ???
Do you know children cry ???
-> Often at the most inconvenient times or places.
-> In the care. On the bus.
-> When meeting other people.
-> In ther evenings or at bedtime.
-> This is not bad luck. -> This is planned by your child.
The Reason: Why does this happen ?
Painful, Uncomfortable
Missing someone "Mom, Dad, Nanny, Toy..."
-> Demand Someone
Sick / Uncomfortable
Cry = uncomfortable (Hot, Cold, Hard, Itchi, )
hungry / thirst
Feel unsafe / Scared of something new
Memory of something "sad"
Scared of something / someone
See other children .... Jeallous / uncomfortable
Surprised = Something new or = unfamiliar
-> Solution is children must learn / Education
Overstimulated: Mentally overloaded
-> The brain feels stress because too much information is coming at the same time
Stress: triggered by a feeling... "can not wait"
Learned behavior.
Fake cry (mom does not give cookie) = right
Fake cry (mom allowes the kid to take a cookie) = wrong
Fake cry (mom brings cookie) = more wrong !!!
Learned behavior.
Avoiding the stress of learning: Cry... Avoid, Escape.
Conclussion:
Not just give your child what you think they want - > but try to understand what your child needs.
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